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Daniel Silliman
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| 19.2.02 |
LAST NAMES-- Have you noticed the shift in the use of last names? Everyone's been going by their first name for quite some time now, that certainly isn't news. We stopped using them in the 60s, I guess. Occasionally we still use last names, mostly for teachers and doctors and people in some position of authority. The new thing, I think, is the use of last names for close friends.
Where you used to know everyone's family name and use the given names of your firends we have turned that on its head. Part of this is that last name's are endearing. I'm not sure why, but when we use last names we are pals, close and jocular. Today I know everyone's given name, but with many close firends I use the last name: McCallum, Gaetano, DeFusco, Stack. When people call me Silliman I get the impression that they like my name. I think the other part of this is just that last name's are interesting and first names are common, generally.
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