. I'm not very good at making new friends and neither are my friends. . What if Rev. Jim Casey had lived until he was old? . I never know how to coax out quiet people. . You mention that to me because you think I think I'm good at everything. . What if Lazarus had the last say, rather than Abraham? . I take all of his objections - won't work, impossible, not reasonable - and say, yes that's precisely the reason why. He misses it. . The idea that no one cares can liberate me to try. . This is what it's like to be from a country that no longer exists. . To love Y because of X is to love X. . To find a solution is to excuse yourself. To not find a solution is to be paralysed.